If your marriage is not working and you are considering moving out of your home, a legal separation is the way to go for now. It will protect you concerning child custody, alimony, taxes and any new debt that is incurred. Moving out of your home could set a precedent for what is awarded if… Continue reading →
Posts Tagged ‘Child Custody’
Never involve children in a divorce
Too many parents put their children right in the middle of their divorce proceedings. They show their anger and frustration for the other spouse in front of their children. I would like to offer some suggestions for keeping your divorce and your children separate from one another. The most important thing to remember is to never speak… Continue reading →
Temporary child custody
Child custody battles are unpleasant for everyone concerned; however, they must be addressed. After all paperwork is filed and the hearing date is scheduled, the judge may issue a temporary order that is good for a few months or until the day of the custody hearing. California Family Code Section 3040 states in part, “Custody… Continue reading →
An absentee father
What do you tell your child when he or she asks where their daddy is? How do you handle it when their daddy does not want to be part of his or her life? It is okay to tell the truth but don’t go overboard – don’t bad-mouth him. Don’t try to turn your child… Continue reading →
Surviving during the divorce process
Many couples going through divorce complain about the ability to keep things afloat while their case is pending. The financial constraints of paying for two households cause some to face foreclosure and substantial debt or worse, bankruptcy. Divorce is rarely easy and quick – it is usually very difficult. As a matter of fact, divorce… Continue reading →
Does domestic violence come into play?
I have been asked if misconduct or domestic violence by either spouse has anything to do with the final judgment of the court since California is a ‘no-fault’ divorce state. Yes; in some cases it does, especially where children are concerned. California law requires child custody issues to be determined by the best interests of… Continue reading →
How can I get a continuance?
Divorce proceedings don’t always go smoothly; in fact, few do, especially when child custody is concerned. There may be circumstances that require a continuance of your scheduled hearing. If this is the case, your attorney can ask the court to grant a new hearing date. Several outcomes can occur, which include: A new hearing is… Continue reading →
What is parental alienation syndrome?
Has your child shown an unwillingness to spend time with you? Parental alienation syndrome could be the reason. It generally occurs when a child’s parents are going through a divorce or separation. The child expresses unjustified hatred or a strong dislike of one parent making visitation difficult or impossible. The feelings can occur when one… Continue reading →
The parent’s rights
Today, many couples have children without getting married. When this type of relationship ends, problems can arise regarding custody, visitation and support. It would be wonderful if the couple can agree on these issues, but that is not always the case. In order to make it work, you must obtain a court order. A mother… Continue reading →
The first year after divorce
Getting through a divorce can be devastating. Now, you are faced with decisions that need to be made by yourself. Do you have the strength to do it? The following are a few tips to get you, a single parent, through one of the toughest times in your life. · First, develop a support network… Continue reading →