When a couple decides to divorce, it is in their best interests to try and negotiate an agreement with each other regarding custody and visitation. Everyone benefits from a negotiated and cooperative child custody agreement, especially the child. There are several types of custody arrangements that can take place: · Joint custody – Parents can… Continue reading →
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Were you served with divorce papers?
If you were served divorce papers by your spouse, you just received formal notice that he or she has taken the first step to divorce action. First, calm down. Read the papers carefully and find the date you need to respond by. If you agree to a divorce, everything should run smoothly, but if you… Continue reading →
An uncontested divorce
When emotions become part of the divorce process, many people lose sight of what is really important. It is foolish to spend thousands of dollars to fight over a piece of property which could be replaced down the road for much less. It is foolish to fight over child custody when the judge issued a… Continue reading →
Family emergencies
Not every family emergency requires calling the police. Of course if you are being threatened or attacked, it is important to call them. What about emergencies that require attention, but not a visit to the police station? Examples include: · Problems when you want to take your child on vacation out of California · Temporary… Continue reading →
Never involve children in a divorce
Too many parents put their children right in the middle of their divorce proceedings. They show their anger and frustration for the other spouse in front of their children. I would like to offer some suggestions for keeping your divorce and your children separate from one another. The most important thing to remember is to never speak… Continue reading →
Temporary child custody
Child custody battles are unpleasant for everyone concerned; however, they must be addressed. After all paperwork is filed and the hearing date is scheduled, the judge may issue a temporary order that is good for a few months or until the day of the custody hearing. California Family Code Section 3040 states in part, “Custody… Continue reading →
An absentee father
What do you tell your child when he or she asks where their daddy is? How do you handle it when their daddy does not want to be part of his or her life? It is okay to tell the truth but don’t go overboard – don’t bad-mouth him. Don’t try to turn your child… Continue reading →
Having child visitation problems?
Is your divorce final and you are now a non-custodial parent instead of a full-time dad? Are you having problems visiting your child? Does your child not want to see you? This happens all the time. It’s baffling and upsetting. Child visitation problems are an unfortunate experience that many divorced parents encounter. Do you feel… Continue reading →
Surviving during the divorce process
Many couples going through divorce complain about the ability to keep things afloat while their case is pending. The financial constraints of paying for two households cause some to face foreclosure and substantial debt or worse, bankruptcy. Divorce is rarely easy and quick – it is usually very difficult. As a matter of fact, divorce… Continue reading →
Does domestic violence come into play?
I have been asked if misconduct or domestic violence by either spouse has anything to do with the final judgment of the court since California is a ‘no-fault’ divorce state. Yes; in some cases it does, especially where children are concerned. California law requires child custody issues to be determined by the best interests of… Continue reading →
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