The Montes Law Firm, APC

Orange County Family Law Attorneys

proudly serving all orange county
Call Today
714-731-8600 Se Habla Español!

  • Home
  • About
  • Attorney
  • Areas of Focus
  • Contact
  • Servicios en Español
  • FAQs
  • Resources
  • Blog
  • Divorce Litigation
  • Family Law & Related Issues
  • Children
  • Money, Property and Support
  • Family Law Mediation

Financial Mistakes That Many People Make in Divorce

Posted on July 28th, 2018 by Amy Montes in Conflict Resolution, Debts, Divorce, Family Law, Property division

When it comes to your divorce settlement, there are many financial mistakes that can be made. Divorce is already an expensive time and we want to help you sort out other financial matters so that aspects go as smoothly as possible. Consider these tips for a simpler divorce, because nobody needs the added stress.

Financial Mistakes to be Avoided 

financial mistakesStaying in the Dark: Some people put themselves in a situation where they become a financial victim. You never want to be in the dark about finances, especially if your spouse has always handled all of the financial decisions in the household. Your spouse might be in a position where they have an unfair advantage over you when it comes to settlement of financial issues if they are in charge of all finances.

This is why it is important to get all the information you can, such as access to all financial records that are possible. You want everything that relates to your marital lifestyle like checking account, tax returns, and more. Protect yourself while you can.

Turning a Blind Eye to Mediation: Before you go to court over these issues, it might be a good idea to first consider mediation. You could save thousands of dollars in legal fees when it comes to the mediation process. Your mediator will not act like a judge and will help you come to an outcome that works for both of you. If your spouse is unwilling to compromise or there are other factors involved that keep you from doing so, court might be for you.

Trying to Punish Your Spouse: Hiring an attorney with only revenge in mind will hurt your bank and probably not theirs. It means more hours working on your case and higher costs for you, which you want to avoid. 

Inaccurate Budget: You might underestimate your living expenses when you are going through divorce. You want to be prepared for the bills that you might encounter after you have gone through a divorce, because it might not be as easy as it seems.

Emotional Attachment to Assets: Don’t become emotionally attached to assets such as your residence, your pension, or something that you purchased together during marriage. You might not realize that, in the end, you can’t actually afford these things. It is important to be sure about everything before you fight to keep it.

We can help if you are going through a divorce and have to get your finances in order. You have many options when it comes to your case and we will stand by your side. Call us for more information at the Montes Law Firm.

Tags: checking account, expensive time, financial issues, financial mistakes, hiring an attorney, in the dark, legal fees, marriage, mediation, records, spouse

Mediation

  • Family Law Mediation
  • Collaborative law
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Collaborative divorce
  • Mediation versus Litigation

Our Legal Staff

Do not hesitate to contact our firm to arrange a free consultation to discuss your situation. We can be reached 24/7 at 714-731-8600.

Amy Montes
Attorney
View Profile

Mary Stopher
Office Manager & Paralegal

  • Facebook
  • LinkedIn
  • Twitter

Location

The Law Office of Amy M. Montes
18881 Von Karmen Ave. Suite 290 Irvine,CA92612
Phone714-731-8600Fax714-731-8603Websitemontesfamilylaw.com/

Recent Post

  • In What Circumstances Does Supervised Visitation Apply to a Case?
  • The Answers to Your Burning Questions Regarding Mediation
  • child custody mediationYour Holiday Plans and Custody: How to Modify Your Order
  • divorce mediationWhat to Know When You Are Divorcing from an Abusive Spouse
  • child custody mediationCan I Attempt to Appeal My Child Custody Order After the Fact?
  • Home
  • About
  • Attorney
  • Areas of Focus
  • Contact
  • Servicios en Español
  • FAQs
  • Resources
  • Blog

The Montes Law Firm, APC provides comprehensive family law representation for individuals throughout Orange County, California, including the communities of Irvine, Santa Ana, Tustin, Anaheim, Costa Mesa, Fullerton, Orange, Seal Beach, Huntington Beach, Villa Park, Yorba Linda, Aliso Viejo, Brea, Buena Park, Cypress and Fountain Valley.

The Montes Law Firm, APC | California Family Law Attorneys - Orange County Family Law Attorney

serving irvine & all orange county
call today
714-731-8600

© 2025 by The Montes Law Firm, APC. All rights reserved. Disclaimer | Sitemap | Amy Montes - Irvine Divorce Lawyer