Pause for a moment and take a deep breath. As you exhale, forget about how much you despise your ex. Forget about the petty things you could do to get back at him or her. Forget about alimony, child support, and the new person you have seen them with. Instead, think of the children you had with this person.
Focus your thoughts on what is best for them, now that their lives have been permanently changed by the divorce. In the aftermath of the split, you can ensure stability in their lives by putting your own feelings aside and acting in the children’s best interests.
Visitation agreements can be very stressful to come up with and even harder to execute. I believe that sharing the time with your children fairly and consistently can make a difference for the better. Ultimately, the best arrangement will depend on what both parents believe is best for the children this is why it is essential to put aside your own feelings in a divorce.
If any part of your visitation rights is compromised of your ex is making it especially difficult to be with your children, contact me, Amy Montes the family law attorney that understands all too well how this process can affect the parent and the child. You’re not alone I’m here to help you and your family through this confusing time.
