Your child custody may be over-complicated or complex due to many different reasons. Because of this, you may wonder how you can tackle your child custody battle without coming out with scars. It may be difficult to deal with the stress of multiple attorneys, your ex spouse creating emotional turmoil for you along the way, or more. However, there are some ways to face the battle head on instead of giving up.
Ways to Face the “Battle”
Having a Clear Set of Goals: Do you know what you want to achieve from your mediation or hearing before it even begins? You may have realistic expectations that you intend to meet. Whether you are fighting for shared custody, visitation, or more it is time to analyze and ensure that you can meet your goals to have as much time as possible with your children.
Keep a Level Head: You should always keep in mind that it is in the best interest of your child to set an example to them. This means controlling your emotions and thinking clearly by clearing your head when needed. If you carry yourself in a calm and assertive manner, you will make a good impression on all involved.
Have Reputable Legal Representation: If you do not have reputable legal representation on your side, you may fall short when it comes to your case. Does your attorney specialize and have experience in family law? Do they understand your needs and the challenges you face? These are things you must constantly ask yourself.
Having a Plan of Action: Consider everything ahead of time and keep a visual record of everything that may be brought up at the hearing. This will showcase willingness and a desire to raise your child.
History of Maintaining Child Support: Child support issues should never be the center of attention when speaking about custody. You never want to give off the notion that you are the most nurturing parent in a relationship. You love your children unconditionally and not economically.
Remember Documentation to Support Your Case: Always keep good documentation by storing everything in a file organizer that you can use anytime. One of the most important pieces of documentation that you should have is a certified copy of the current custodial arrangement. Documentation is always a good idea because it will help you support your claims made in the case.
Keep Communication Open: You and your ex spouse should always want nothing but the best for your child. Once court is over, the only thing that will remain is yourself, your ex, and your children. This is why it is always important to consider these factors so nobody suffers.
Be Respectable: Officials in charge of every process in the proceedings will be scrutinizing you, even if this does not sound professional. This means that you should be prepared to always look and sound your best!
There are many things you should never do at a court hearing. You should never go against the best interests of the child, never use conversations as evidence, and never alienate your child from the other parent. However, hopefully these simple tips have helped you understand what you should do. Call us today at The Law Offices of Amy M. Montes for help with your case.
