Unmarried parents are a diverse group.
Some unmarried parents are in a loving relationship and share a home, while others would probably be estranged if not for the child they share. However, unmarried parents, whether together or not, share unique issues with regard to child custody, child support and visitation rights.
Unlike divorced parents, for unmarried parents, these issues are not automatically determined and monitored by the courts. Unmarried parents need to be pro-active and pursue court orders themselves.
Court orders hold parents accountable for paying child support and can legally enforce visitation rights. Whether the unmarried parents have a tense relationship or it is amicable between them, establishing paternity, child support payments and visitation rights formally through a court order can help prevent future misunderstandings and disagreements.
Tips to help unmarried parents get along better include:
- Developing a parenting plan together – detailing certain decisions about the child’s health care, education and religious beliefs.
- Create a visitation schedule to allow time with both parents on a regular basis – work together to make sure the visits go smoothly
- Communicate with the other parent about the child’s needs, likes and dislikes, and dropping off and pickup up time and place
Make sure you spend quality, fun and meaningful time with your child. Never discuss adult issues, such as child support, visitation or other problems in front of your child.
Unmarried parents can face a unique set of problems that can complicate their relationship with each other and their child. If you are an unmarried parent with questions on how to make sure the best interests of your child are met, contact an experienced family attorney for the answers.
Contact the Orange County family law office of Amy M. Montes who will advise you of your options and guide you through the legal process.
