Getting your spouse to sign divorce papers

When the couple decides together that divorce is the answer, it is basically smooth sailing to the final judgment.  What happens when one of the parties is against a divorce?

One of the biggest concerns is getting your spouse to sign the divorce papers.  I’m sure you’ve heard that it is easy to catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.  Listen to it.  Be nice, be friendly, and be polite.  Do not start your conversation in a nasty tone.  Check your bad attitude at the door.

Try to sit down and discuss major concerns with your spouse and make sure to ask for his or her input – don’t decide matters on your own and then approach him or her.  Be reasonable and be open to compromise – it gets the job done.

If you are having problems working together, contact an experienced Orange County Divorce attorney who will get the ball rolling for you and advise you of your best options and cause of action.  Remember; don’t let your emotions get the best of you.