Now that the holidays are upon us, one of the challenges every newly divorced parent faces is providing a happy, safe, and comforting time for their children. Every child wants both parents to spend holidays with. When that first holiday comes and one parent is missing, it is hard for any child.
Statistics show that more than 50% of all marriages end in divorce; many of those marriages involve children. Make sure that the holiday decisions you make are in the best interests of your children – this is not about you. The divorce may have been hard for you, but your children are also going through a confusing and sometimes frightening time in their life.
Why not create new rituals for you and your children to share? It could be as simple as putting up the decorations or watching a Christmas movie. It is best to acknowledge that things are different now; involve your children in the decision-making.
If your spouse is not cooperating or perhaps giving you a hard time about visitation rights, contact an experienced Orange County Family Law attorney who can give you the advice you need and guide you through issues so you can focus on moving forward with your life.
