Even though divorce separates spouses, it should not end the parent-child relationship because children benefit from a positive influence of both parents – even after their marriage has ended.
Today, in most cases, parents are awarded shared custody. They are asked to come up with a feasible parenting plan – one that works for all concerned. It requires the coordination of two separate households. It requires communication between the parents even if they prefer not to talk to each other.
Co-parenting is basically joint custody – the parents share time and responsibility for their children. Successful co-parenting is vital to the development, health and happiness of the children. In addition, it should be the primary goal of the parents. Keys to successful co-parenting include:
- Adequate funding in each household
- Being flexible
- Accepting the other parent’s choices
- Resolving conflict effectively
Divorce is not easy, especially when children are involved. A successful co-parenting plan ensures the mental, emotional and physical needs of your children are met. If you have questions regarding a co-parenting plan or any family matter, contact an experienced Orange County Family Law attorney who will answer your questions and help you get on the road to new beginnings.
