You thought and thought about your decision to divorce your spouse for a very long time. You finally decided that divorce is your best option. Now, you must decide the best way to tell your spouse you want to end your marriage. If your marriage has deteriorated to this point, chances are your spouse probably knows what’s coming.
There are advantages and disadvantages to every possible scenario you come up with. You could hire an attorney and have them send a friendly letter to your spouse advising that you have filed for divorce, how you hope the process will remain amicable and advising him or her to seek legal representation. Another option is to tell him or her about your decision in a public place or in the privacy of your own home.
How your spouse handles the news is not always predictable. Your spouse could be relieved because he or she was thinking the same thoughts or your decision could take him or her totally by surprise.
If you have questions regarding divorce and how to tell your spouse, contact an experienced Orange County Divorce attorney who will help you understand what is in your best interests and how to proceed with your next steps.
